Traveling the Tough Terrain of Midlife
Once upon a time, we knew where we were going and how to get there. Then came midlife. And now we feel a little lost.
Did you see that coming? Me neither.
It’s challenging territory, but there’s good news: Even though there is not a one-size-fits-all map to tell us the way, it’s possible for us to find the way.
That’s what we’re about here–finding our way.
If you’re traveling the tough terrain of midlife, you’re in the right place to find encouragement, companionship, tools, and practices to help you navigate by attention, intention and faith rather than autopilot, discouragement, and drift.
Happy trails ~
Natalie
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