Seasons–the days, the weeks, and even the months they are made of–are easy things for me to give away. I saw this tendency when my son and daughters were small and I referred to them as the age they would be on their next birthday rather than the one they were in that moment. I see it more often than I’d like, when I give away bits of a day that had stretched into the distance like our straight gravel road to things that don’t matter. And with a month of summer still left, I struggle not to feel like it’s already over.
Do you feel that way too? If you do, I have good news: It’s not.
Summer still holds thirty-seven days on the calendar. Recounting the gifts, the graces, and the things that have made a difference helps me remember that. Care to join me?
Summer’s Gifts and Graces:
- Kittens. Period.
- Warm sun on my skin.
- Summer school. AKA reading by the pool.
- Shade. Because too much of even the good gift of sun is too much.
- Watermelon. I’m not usually a fan. This summer, though? Different story.
- Long days and late nights. Even though it means the sun is up before I am.
- Breezes. There’s nothing quite like the gentle rustle of wind through the leaves.
- The return of school. My girls mentioned their desire for its rhythms and routines before I did.
- Gardens. Where else is it so evident that worthwhile things require time, effort, and cultivation?
- Rain. It waters the roots, settles the dust, and, some years, there doesn’t seem to be quite enough.
- Time. Even though summer is still busy, the space-time continuum is just different during this season.
- Central air. Because even morning’s singing birds and evening’s chirping frogs can’t make up for the heat of high summer.
I keep track of more of each season’s gifts and graces on Instagram. If you’re on IG and you’d like to join in, use the hashtag #thegiftsandgraces.
Diligence is good but deadlines are better.
I’ve never been one of those works-best-under-pressure sorts of gals. Back in college, I believed it when professors told me I would need the whole semester to complete an assignment. I started right away and finished without a lot of stress and pressure. In my current life I’ve been working diligently on a project. For a long time. I added a deadline and made huge progress. Fast.
Diligence paves the way. Deadlines provide the fuel to actually arrive.
Watermelon, Cucumber, and Burrata Salad. Find it here. Sweet watermelon. Savory lots of other things. Love it!
To my body: It needs more sleep. Either the 5 a.m. wakeup call or the late bedtime had to go. I’m getting up a little later. I’m not getting as much done, but that really isn’t the most important thing in life.
At some public gardens and a nearby pretty little city: The flowers demand attention. They’re reminding me that effort and patience produce good fruit.
How about you? What gifts and graces have been part of your summer? What have you learned, liked, listened to, or looked at that’s made a difference this season?
Linking over at Emily P Freeman’s today, with lots of others sharing what they learned this summer..
Oh how much I needed this reminder: “Diligence paves the way. Deadlines provide the fuel to actually arrive.”
I’ve always been hesitant to set deadlines because of the perfectionist screaming inside and what if I don’t make the deadline and on and on…..
But this is truth. And it needs to happen, so thank you!
So cool to meet you just now at Emily’s, Natalie. Your writing is smart and inviting … thanks for sharing all the gifts and graces that come in all shapes and forms …